Tips on Singapore's Cultural Etiquette - Part 2: On Greetings

First impressions can be nerve-racking. You want to get off on the right foot with the person. This can be especially difficult when you're trying to juggle the cultural expectations of several different cultures and/or ethnic groups with which you have little familiarity. Starting off with some knowledge of the correct greeting can help you make a pleasant first impression when meeting new people in Singapore.  

On Greetings:

1. Regardless of ethnicity, introductions are usually made in descending order of social importance. Hence those in managerial positions and older people will usually be introduced first and younger colleagues of like-importance last.

2.  Always shake hands with the right hand. The Muslims (many of whom are Malays) and Indians consider the left hand to be gross as it is used for "bathroom functions." Also, with women of these two groups it is polite to wait and see if they reach out their hand first; otherwise a smile and a polite acknowledgement may be a sufficient greeting.

3. After "ni hao" or "hello," "have you taken your lunch?" is a common greeting from Chinese friends and colleagues. This is neither an invitation to lunch nor a query about your last meal. Take it as more of a show of concern about your general welfare, like "How are you?" Any short, kind answer to the question is appropriate.

4. Sometimes people may say "Nice to meet you" without giving their names. I think it might have to do with the excitement/nervousness of meeting someone new and different. Don't be afraid to politely ask their name and offer yours if you didn't already.